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This has been a healing read.

1. I used to get told I was “too nice” on occasion at work. It’s only now I get what they mean! Our relationship suffered in the end because deeper and more difficult conversations that led to mutual understanding could not be held.

2. I can see only for the first time how Deeply triggered get by a certain person in my life is down to me being too nice and that person exploding her emotions, judgements and opinions all over me (on occasions). I get triggered because I suppress all mine and do as I’m told and she doesn’t !!! Light bulb moment - thank you💡

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My biggest fear about difficult emotions (happened when my dad was dying and I was busiest myself cleaning his room -a room that was deep cleaned daily and cleaning not being my forte !!) was that I would “fall apart”

If I stopped. It took for my youngest brother to insist I take a break and tell me that it “ok to fall apart” if that’s what happened. My dad died and 3 months later I became completely disabled by illness and could no longer get out of bed to drag myself to work and hide the illness I’d had since I was 18.

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